May has been a whirlwind of a month so far. My oldest son married his girlfriend of three years. It was a small intimate gathering, very simple and stress free. They both looked absolutely gorgeous but I have to say the best man stole the show. Their 10 week old golden doodle, Leo. The whole day was just perfect, the bride and groom made me very proud. Congratulations to them both❣️🥂

For this week I decided to share with you products that are designed and made for intimacy, personal and sexual. Many of you may not know this but  May is also masturbation month?  Or maybe you do and it’s just me that was clueless?🤨  I believe the act of self-pleasuring is entirely different for women than it is for men. Women have a tendency to be more detail orientated and “the act” is far more intimate. That being said, this week’s recommendations are tried and true. They deliver. 💋

Power and Pleasure Pack   $21

Initially, I was just going to recommend the “Hallelubeyah” personal lubricant. Until this little set caught my eye. Plus, they are offering a few bucks off when you purchase the two together. First off, I’d like to say I’ve become a bit of a lube expert. Yes, I have tried that many. 😩Most will say non-sticky but what you get is sticky. Or they dry to quickly before they become sticky. You get the point? Good. 

Hallelubeyah is long-lasting, silky, and slightly slippery but NOT STICKY! Yah! It’s also PH balanced, water-based, and made from 100% purified natural kiwi vine extract. That’s taking natural into a whole nother level! Making it completely safe to use on all your nether regions, with your sex toys, and also for latex condoms.

This brings me to the other item in this pack. Loveability condoms are a company best seller and with good reason. Ultra-thin and made with 100% natural vegan latex. No harsh chemicals, dyes, or fragrances making them perfect for those with even the most sensitive skin. But what I like most is, they are made to be worn on men but carried by women. This cute little tin carries 3 condoms. Keeping your love life discreet while staying in charge of your sex life.


Pom Flexible Vibrator   $95

If you follow my weekly column, and why wouldn’t you? This company should seem familiar? I am a huge fan of Dame Products and have featured them several times in my weekly obsessions. This female-owned and operated company is on a mission to close the pleasure gap disparity. Making sexual satisfaction as frequent for those of us with vulvas to our male counterparts. It’s about time!

The Pom Vibrator is flexible, waterproof, and powerful with 5 stimulation patterns. Not sure if Pom is right for you? Then take their “Find your vibe quiz.” With questions like, do you prefer to use solo or with a partner? Or what kind of vibration pattern do you like? Either way, the quiz will help steer you in the right direction. If you ask me,(and why wouldn’t you?)you can’t go wrong with any of them. I own several, and they never disappoint.


The 24/7 Bra Kit  $115

How many times have you gone bra shopping needing measurements, to be told a different size each time? Or you spent $300 dollars and you still find yourself wearing ill-fitting bras? Sound familiar? It should. According to THIRDLOVE, 80% of us are wearing the wrong bra size.

That’s why I love this company. They want to make sure that you get it right. Their online bra education is extremely helpful. Like, how to measure, the breast shape dictionary, fit issues and solutions or take the fitting room quiz. They even sell half sizes! The inventory of styles and colors is amazing, you are bound to find your new favorite bra here. So come on! What are you waiting for? Listen to your boobs. 😘


The Dream Short   $38

These lightweight, highly absorbent, super comfortable sleeping shorts are certainly a dream. A dream come true that is.  Highly absorbent meaning, anything from light bladder leaks, periods, and even sweat. I hate to break it to you but if you are a women chances are you will have to deal with all of those things at some point in time.

That’s the beauty of Knix, they mastered comfort with functionality. Allowing you to feel confident and secure in your own skin. I say wearing the right undergarments and feeling prepared for whatever life might throw at you, is immeasurable.


Celebrating Women!

As you know, I like to end each obsessions article by featuring a product and or business that is owned and operated by women. This week I’ve got a little surprise, each business mentioned above is all owned and operated by women.

That’s right. Each and every one of them with her own mission to inspire and empower women. Whether it be through sexual wellness, personal confidence, comfort, and function. All in support of women to live their lives as they wish. Unapologetically. Thank you!!

Knix, ThirdLove, Dame & Loveability

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