Let us give Thanks and Praise to all Role Models but especially Black Role Models!
Since it is the month of November, and the season of being thankful, I want to thank all of the black role models. I say black role models because I…
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Opinion
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It is Disheartening Yet True; Have You Been Talking About Missing White Woman Syndrome?
I know that by now almost everyone has heard the name Gabby Petitio. On August 30, 2021, Gabby went missing while cross country traveling with her boyfriend, Brian Laundrie, in…
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The OnlyFans Controversy And How It Continues The Sexual Revolution
On August 19, 2021, the news broke about canceling sexual content on OnlyFans. Originally, the company’s founder and chief executive Tim Stokely subsequently blamed the banking sector, which he said…
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Jim Crow Lives On In Karens
Covid-19 isn’t the only pandemic plaguing America. Over recent years America has been experiencing the pandemic of the Karens. For those of you that don’t know, a Karen or Kevin…
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#METOO Equals Tenacious
Tenacious. Having tenacity. Be tenacious. Defined as “not easily pulled apart” or “persistent in maintaining, adhering to, or seeking something valued or desired“. Tenacity is what the founder of the…
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Being Black in America
Allow me to thank the government for making Juneteenth a national holiday, but excuse me for saying that we, as black people, wanted a law that protects us against hate…
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#MeToo – There is still more work to do….
On Wednesday afternoon, I saw the first image of Bill Cosby by the boxes of Jell-O with the caption “The pill is in the puddin”. So many emotions were evoked…
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Netflix’s Sexify; my thoughts on the last 4 episodes
The second half of the Sexify season is what I like to call a “beautiful disaster”. The kind of drama and chaos that is laced with a positive theme and…
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On Juneteenth and Every Day, I’m Black and I’m Proud!
As Juneteenth approaches, let us be reminded of where we came from. Yes, as Black Americans our history isn’t so great but there’s a lot we can learn from it.…
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Thoughts on Sexify: first 4 episodes
Imagine having access to a resource on your phone that you could use to help enhance your sex life. What would you do with that? What type of information would…
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Relationships defined by a male perspective
What is a relationship? I believe it is something that can be fantastic and blissful while at the same time being a power struggle between two human beings. When you…
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Bona Fide Struggles with Common Ground
There appears to be a constant struggle to find a common ground. Especially lately, electing a new president so far has not erased or escaped the dark cloud that looms…
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Surprise, porn stars feel shame too
Shame. It is one of the most destructive weapons in our verbal and emotional arsenal, taught to us at a very young age. Pre-teens and teens have to navigate a…
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How Religion Impacts Our Sex Lives
I see many people whose sexual problems stem directly from their upbringing. Often they are completely unaware of how religion has impacted them, which is not surprising given they are…
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Sex Lives Matter
Yes, I know, Sex Lives Matter this title is borrowing from the BLM movement. 2020 has taught us many sobering things. One lesson, 2020 has reminded us, is it is…
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Why Conversations About The MeToo Movement Must Continue
The revolutionary MeToo Movement exploded onto the scene when the hashtag, #MeToo, went viral in 2017. Even though positive changes continue to happen since the MeToo Movement, COVID-19 has turned…
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It’s Time to Quit the Kegel Exercises & the Kardashians
I know it’s an unpopular opinion, I must share it though; Kegels are like The Kardashians. I don’t understand why they are popular, yet people continue to want to keep…
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Ways Unconditional Surrender Statue, #METOO, and #BLM Have in Common
What do the Unconditional Surrender Statue, #METOO and the #BLM movement have in common? The Unconditional Surrender Statue, a sailor kissing a nurse, has once again come into the news…
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Just The Way She Is, Say no to Vaginal Rejuvenation
I am here to claim that “I love my vagina” just the way she is. Recently, I have noticed the increased frequency of vaginal rejuvenation ads on the radio and…
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Sexual Health a Community Service Perspective
Sexual health from a community service perspective is unfortunately rarely addressed. Workers in the support field often confront sexual difficulties that they are not equipped to deal with. Some of the…
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