In the exciting realm of reproductive health care, in vitro fertilization (IVF) has emerged as a game-changer for countless individuals and couples facing the challenges of infertility. Providing hope and new possibilities, IVF has revolutionized medicine’s approach to conception.

My article seeks to acquaint you with the fundamentals of IVF, exploring its far-reaching implications for reproductive health and shedding light on the often-overlooked mental health aspects of the process. Moreover, it delves into the profound impact that IVF can have on relationships, offering insights and support to navigate this transformative journey with empathy and understanding.

What is IVF?

In vitro fertilization is a series of procedures designed to assist with fertility. It involves the extraction of mature eggs from a woman’s ovaries. After extraction, the eggs are fertilized with sperm in a laboratory setting, known as in vitro (Latin for ‘in the glass’) fertilization (ASRM, 2021). The fertilized eggs, or embryos, are cultured for a period before being transferred to the woman’s uterus.

Reproductive Health

For women with issues related to ovulation, endometriosis, or those with unexplained infertility, IVF has been perceived as a beacon of hope (ASRM, 2021). It is important, however, to understand IVF is not a guaranteed route to pregnancy. The success rate varies depending on factors such as the woman’s overall health, age, history of miscarriage, and the quality of the embryos. According to the Society for Assisted Reproductive Technologies, the live birth rate for each IVF cycle starts at 53% for women under 35, dropping to 6% for women over 42 (SART, 2021).

While IVF can be an effective infertility treatment, concerns about the long-term health effects for mothers and babies are yet to be fully documented. Some studies suggest higher rates of preterm birth and low birth weight in children conceived through IVF, although more research is needed to confirm these findings (Davies et al., 2012).

Mental Health Implications Using IVF

Undergoing IVF poses significant psychological and emotional challenges. The challenges include high levels of stress, anxiety, and depression, compounded by uncertainties about the outcome, physical discomfort, unsuccessful transfers, and financial pressures, which can strain the couple’s relationship (Volgsten et al., 2008).

It is paramount that those embarking on an IVF journey ensure that they are well-informed, emotionally prepared, and have access to adequate emotional support (Volgsten et al., 2008). Mental health professionals specializing in reproductive health can be invaluable resource during this challenging period. The best care teams include medical providers, as well as those with backgrounds in psychology and the behavioral sciences.

IVF demands much from relationships. The emotional rollercoaster of hope and despair can trigger distress, sometimes leading to breakdowns. Yet, open communication and mutual understanding, supported by professional guidance, can help maintain stability. Interestingly, these challenges can also deepen a couple’s connection, fostering empathy and mutual support (Sydsjö et al., 2011).


My Story

Having experienced IVF myself, I can attest to its complex emotional landscape. It’s a journey filled with challenges, but for many like me, it culminates in joy.


It is stunning, to me, that in this day and age IVF treatment tried to be banned in at least one state, Alabama. In case you have not heard: in Alabama, recent legal developments have significantly impacted IVF. A bill protecting IVF patients and providers from legal liability was signed into law by Governor Kay Ivey. This legislative action was a response to a controversial Alabama Supreme Court decision that threw the future of infertility care into turmoil by ruling that frozen embryos are human beings, and thus, their destruction could lead to wrongful death claims.

Although the ruling by that state Supreme Court has since been rolled back, the move is a clear indication of how reproductive rights and freedoms in this country are on the chopping block.

To me, the process of IVF is misunderstood. One of the reasons comprehensive care teams are important is because the process is anything but easy, and rarely carelessly undertaken. For some it is nothing short of a miracle, to be able to conceive by choice and start a family where there might have been no opportunity to do so otherwise. Those who are “pro-family” and “pro-life” who oppose IVF treatment, seem to want to argue both ways. They would strip women of their ability to choose whether, when, and how to conceive, but then once they do, would demonize the process.

Politics has no place in this conversation. When someone drags politics into it, I would advise being better informed of all that IVF entails and having a healthy dose of empathy.


In conclusion, IVF provides an invaluable option for those dealing with the challenges of infertility, but it comes with its own unique set of issues. The journey to conceive through IVF is often an emotionally charged one, necessitating support on multiple fronts. Adequate knowledge, emotional readiness, and a strong support system can aid the process, making the journey to parenthood somewhat less strenuous.

This article sheds light on the often misunderstood and emotionally complex journey of IVF. As someone who has navigated the ups and downs of IVF, it’s heartening to see the conversation around reproductive health being broadened and destigmatized. The emphasis on mental health and the importance of support systems is particularly resonant. It’s a reminder that behind the clinical aspects of IVF, real people are facing deeply personal challenges. Let’s continue to advocate for informed discussions and empathy in our approach to reproductive rights and health care.